My better half has less training than we am, is less ambitious, has no interest in current events or the broader world around him, isn’t well-read, has siblings who are unemployed or low-skilled workers — and yet, he and I are perfect together than I do, is from a lower-social-class neighborhood, is much less sophisticated in many ways. He treats me personally like silver, makes me laugh and draws me personally away from my mind, where I would personally would like to live more often than not. We’ll be hitched 7 years this coming New Year’s Day. (Time flies, huh, Evan? ) Evan is SO right about the “checklist” nonsense.